What if I told you that I was having second thoughts about marriage?
I know, it would be out of the ordinary.
But what if,
Just what if you spent a couple weeks
with every church leader's family?
What you would expect to see is a loving relationship
Between husband and wife
Children and parents
But instead, family members are putting
one another down
Fighting and bickering over things
That don't really even matter
At the end of the day.

What if,
Just what if
You were put in this kind of situation?
You would want to scream at the father
Telling him that he is not loving his wife
As Christ loved the church
But instead,
All you can do is watch.
You would want to tell the kids that
Jesus would want them
to love
each other,
Not kill one another
With their words.
But instead, all you can do is watch.

Would you start
to have second thoughts about marriage
after seeing this kind of situation
Day in
And day
out?

What if,
Just what if,
this didn't have to
be
true?